Rev. Marcy Ann Cheek has gained national recognition for her work as a non-traditional wedding minister who has married over 4,000 couples at the great Southern California beaches. Although she says the marriage ceremonies she writes attempt to remove traces of the former bondage and slavery of woman’s past which reflect a time when women had no say so over their lives, she has penned a book which addresses a common desire she’s heard from even the most modern 21st century female: their desire to eventually find a man to marry, not just have a live-in sexual relationship. Cheek says, “I believe that most single women today still want the total commitment and reliable love of a life-long, monogamous marriage with Mr. Right.” But Marcy Ann says that finding that special someone may be a question of being Ms. Right! So Cheek gives the single girl 17 things to do while waiting for Mr. Right. She advises women to take a personal inventory of their possessions, current relationships and whatever no longer works. She offers worksheets and asks many questions.  Marcy Ann says, “I personally have done all 17 things I suggest in my book.